Here & There

Hey there! Can I be honest with you for a moment? Picture this: You've spent hours preparing for an assignment, carefully crafting your responses, and your internet connection drops just as you're about to submit. Your heart starts racing, your palms get sweaty, and that dreaded feeling of panic sets in. Sound familiar? But you know what? That's exactly what I faced last month. That moment taught me something valuable about emotional control – The next time technology fails at a crucial moment (because let's be honest, it probably will), I'll be better prepared - not just technically, but emotionally too. I want to share that journey with you. Quick question for you: When was the last time you felt overwhelmed? Take a moment to think about it. What triggered those feelings? How did your body react? You see, emotions aren't just random feelings – they're like text messages from our inner selves. Sometimes they're crystal clear ("I'm happy! 😊...

ज़िन्दगी की समस्याएँ एक समुद्र की तरह हैं,  एक पार करो तो दूसरा समुद्र मिलेगा,  लेकिन बात तब ही आगे बढ़ेगी, जब हम उस समुद्र को सही ढंग से पार करना सीख लेंगे। जितनी गहराई पानी की होगी,  उतना ही अच्छा रहेगा हमारे लिए।  इस छोटी सी उम्र में, उसी पानी में से जितनी जल्दी बाहर आना सीख लिया,  उतना ही अच्छा रहेगा हमारे आने वाले समय के लिए। कितने खतरनाक होते हैं ना ये समुद्री जानवर!  इनसे कैसे बचा जाए, बस यही तो सीखना है हमें! और हां! कौन से जानवर हमारे लिए, हमारे जीवन के लिए अच्छे हैं, और कौन से जानवर हानिकारक हैं,  बस यही तो सीखना है हमें! अगर ये सब जान लिया, तो समझो आपका जीवन सँवर गया। फिर आपके लिए दुनिया का कोई भी समुद्र, न ही गहरा होगा और न ही वो समुद्री जानवर,  आपका कुछ बिगाड़ पाएंगे। आप बड़ी आसानी से वो समुद्र पार कर लेंगे। बस यही तो सीखना है हमें! ~कलरव

Hello Readers!! Disclaimer: This blog is based on what I experienced last year, so please don't take these things in an ideal way! I am sharing it as this might help someone, someday in some way.  1. COMMUNICATE  It's easy to say but you need guts to even ask a simple question to the other person. Communicating makes things easier to deal with. Clarify, if you feel so! It surely avoids misunderstandings.  If you observe your surroundings, birds, animals and even plants have a very good sense of communicating with each other. So if we want to call ourselves "more evolved", we need to learn from them, how to communicate effectively :)  2. DIFFERENT PERSPECTIVE Everyone has their own perspective and thought process, so we should not judge people based on our already developed mindset and expectations. Let's respect the difference of 0.1% DNA between individuals! 3. DIFFERENT EXPERIENCES Person to person, the experience varies, and therefore, their thought process var...